Friday, October 13, 2006

The Line

Where would one put the line?

I speak of my current predicament in looking for a future spouse. I'm relatively certain that I could have a good marriage with any one of a number of women I've known. Sometimes it almost seems depressing to see how many incredible women there are out there.

Looking at myself and other men and comparing such with the women of today and the ratio of really good women to really good men is so out of balance. So many women it seems will have such a hard time getting the man the deserve, while if a man has any amount of intelligence and decency it seems rather easy for such to find an incredible woman.

Is it wrong to take advantage of such a "man's market"? A situation in which the men can find a quality woman with more ease than a woman can find a quality man.

1 Comments:

Blogger Doug Towers said...

This is particularly true in the church, where women are at least looking for a marriage partner. If a guy demonstrates stability he shouldn't have too much trouble. But I think one thing you need to consider here is that women's problems aren't as obvious as men's. Or, still waters may run so deep that you drown. Not all that glitters is gold. Etc.

Deep spirituality is more than just words to impress a guy. How much control does a woman want? The old "we'll talk things out" needs an awful lot of defining. Remember that the real woman is rarely whom you meet on a date. Have you really found her? Take a woman out on service projects. Visiting the sick in hospital lots of times. See how much natural compassion she demonstrates. Remember it will be show, so you have to wear down the actress.

But having said this warning I would agree with you overall.

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